The Laws of Attraction state what you feel, how you think, the thoughts you pour your energy into and focus on, you become.

How do some of us find ourselves knee-deep in a world we despise?

It’s because we created it on our own.

Take it from someone who’s seen rejection and failure one too many times in life — my job I despised, the girls I’ve always wanted but never got, the uncertainty in myself and my future, the constant need for validation.

I’ve pretended to be someone I’m not or someone I should be because I either told myself or I let someone influence me into believing that’s “how you look good on paper” or that’s what girls want to hear or this is the way life is supposed to be in order to stay in line.

It’s easy to live in a world where you deny your reality and make it into something it isn’t. It’s easy to pretend. It’s easy to attract people based on what you think “they” like.

However, those are all the ingredients to make yourself miserable. You can only pretend for so long before you find yourself at a crossroads. A crossroads which makes you decide whether to continue going on with your life in denial or to start actually looking for truth.

I had the chance to link up with someone who specializes in helping men live a life they want to live and someone who has built her success based on the principle of honesty.

Hard-hitting, direct and straight in your face honesty and someone who encourages her clients to be their bold unapologetic authentic selves.

Kezia Noble is the world’s leading female dating expert for men, a bestselling published author, and YouTube star with nearly 50 million views on her channel.

“Radical honesty creates a lot of impact.”

Personally, I believe people should reach a point in life where they come to terms with their own weaknesses and areas in life that need improvement. In the past year or two I ran into these realizations which somehow led me to Kezia’s YouTube Channel.

I’m not really the type who buys into the whole pick-up community because some of the teachings do not align with my own personal beliefs and values.

But in every industry you have individuals who do things the wrong way and individuals who actually try to help people.

It doesn’t take long to realize Kezia is someone who is actually trying to improve the dating lives of frustrated and struggling men.

She’s really doing it for the women as well if you think about it. I’m sure for many women you’ve reached points in your life where there’s literally no hope of ever finding it.

Kezia definitely opened my horizons and hit home on a lot of topics that made sense to me.